Just dream it and you can get it. Just work hard enough and you will fulfill all your dreams. Get the right education, do your exercises, take the right course or self-improvement plan and your life will vibrate in 7 different colours. If it doesn’t work, it’s your own fault. Fake it til you make it.
Law of attraction works in a flash and if it doesn't- you are doing it wrong. You are not letting go, you are not creating your vision board right. You haven't prayed hard enough and you haven’t wished in the "right" way. Perhaps you clinged on to your wish too tight?
Perhaps you need to be better, cleverer, wiser, truer, freer, looser?
Perhaps you need to let go, need to work harder or need to do it the other way around.
Perhaps healing and kinesiology work for most people – but not for you?
Are you one of those people who still have a backache after several sessions at the acupuncture clinic? And money always flow out of your hands?
Is that the case?
I believe sometimes we simply have to let go. We simply have to be sad, have a back ache, be miserable and just cry. Hide in a cave for a while and simply be with it. Well, we don't have to - but we have to...
Yes it is no fun whatsoever. But it is what it is.
If you're in a miserable state, perhaps you'll learn from it, perhaps you won’t. Perhaps you'll come out at the other end a better person, perhaps you won't.
Sometimes life simply sucks whether it is your fault or not.
Yes there are several friends, preachers, laws and techniques out there to help us, to guide us, to lift us. And all the believers out there will tell you that their therapy is the best and it “aaaalways works for them”. Adding to your guilt when it doesn’t work for you.
But sometimes we are simply not there in mind and heart to receive it. Simple as that.
Or perhaps you are looking too hard for a "result".
The best thing you can do in that situation is to accept it as it is. Sit with it. Be with it and stop blaming yourself. Follow your rhythm. Cause you, and only you – know best.
And do you know what – it’s ok.
I am currently really sad. Really sad. My dad died a few months ago. And no matter what I do to cheer myself up, it doesn’t work. It simply doesn’t. And trust me – I have tried and I have all the techniques available to me that you can dream of. I have lots of friends with good good advice and they all reach out to help me. And I love them for it. But right now. I just need to be sad.
And yes I know that people far worse off than me managed to turn lives around. But that is them.
And so I am. Simply am. I go about my daily life and cut down on all the unnecessary chores and missions. I manage. But I am glum, blue and downright miserable.
But I allow myself to be here.
Because I follow my rhythm.
And I know my rhythm will bring me up one day. It will even vibrate in 7 different colours. But until I’m there I won’t push it.
I will be me in all the colours there is.